Today is our 2nd anniversary being husband and wife. I wont tell story about the marriage itself, but i would post something i wrote almost 3 years a go. After he said "love" word for the first time, way before our wedding. So it would be so cheesy and full of young love lol.

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Kalo nulis pake bahasa Indonesia berarti isinya klo ga DIY ya terlalu sentimentil hihihi. Post ini bakal panjaang banget, jadi kalo males baca, skip ajaa :D

You have no idea how long i've wait akhirnya bisa nulis pake judul " Significant Other". Karena dulu-dulunya  belom ada Significant other nya, dan sekarang Alhamdulilah sudah ada :D Bahagiaa itu pasti soalnya my significant other orangnya nyenengiin (meskipun agak silly, cheesy dan unik). Ok, mari mulai ceritanya..

Ibnu Mas'ud, anak kedua dari tiga bersodara. Gede, sekolah, kuliah, kerja di Bandung (banyak yg sirik lho bisa-bisa nya seumur idup di Bandung). Kenalnya? dikenalin sama teman SMA-kuliah saya si Iena, yang juga temen sekantornya Ibnu. Iena dari dulu bilang kalo ada temennya yg bilang saya lucu. Trus kata Iena, temennya ini sampe bikin blog sendiri gara-gara abis liat blog saya dan bilang isi blog saya lucu. Trus Iena pengen ngenalin saya ke temennya ini soalnya sama-sama single dan kayaknya bisa di prospek (macem asuransi). Ternyata temannya Iena ini ya si Ibnu. Ibnu kadang-kadang bajak whatsapp nya Iena trus sok-sok nyapa saya di grup ciwi-ciwi. Trus Ibnu nge follow saya di Instagram, trus nge chat saya pake whatsapp si Iena. Waktu ngobrol pertama kali untungnya nyambung, gara-gara orangnya silly kali ya. Akhirnya tanggal 25-12-2014 (hafal kan aku), Ibnu berani chat via japri pake nomernya sendiri.

Saya bukan tipe yang suka kenalan via chatting, paling males malah. Tapi ngga tau pas Ibnu semua jadi "yauda gpp". Soalnya si Ibnu orangnya fun dan lucu sekali, kasarannya bocah banget. chat awal-awal kita tentang film, film series, sama buku. Dan ternyata kami sama-sama suka buku yang sama. Trus ternyata sama-sama suka bikin Terrarium, tp dia bikin versi aer semacem aquaspace gitu. "Waaaah seru ini", akhirnya saya mau ngaku kalo ada tertarik sama bocah ini. Dan bilanglah saya ke Helsi tentang Ibnu. Tau apa kata Helsi? "LANJUTKAN!! aku dukung kamu sama Ibnu!!". Padahal itu belum ketemuan sama sekali. Berlanjut sampe chatting taun baru, tebak-tebakan jayus, share gambar-gambar absurd. But that's how he steals my heart. He makes me laugh, never failed to make me laugh.

Setelah dua mingguan chatting, si Iena ngajak Ibnu ke Jakarta buat ketemuan sama saya. Rencananya tgl 24-01-2015 pas saya ke Bandung ada nikahan Aci, tapi karena Iena pengen cepet ngetemuin kami berdua, jadilah tgl 10-01-2015 Ibnu maen ke Jakarta. Pertama kali liat Ibnu? saya ketawa ngakak. Asli! Gimana ngga dia didepan pager kosan uda teriak," Ditsza Diandraaaaa kenapa aku ga boleh masuk kosan kamu???". Kosan saya kosan cewe yg cowo ga boleh masuk, bolehnya dari pager sampe teras doang. Katanya dia penasaran sama kamar saya soalnya gelap terus kalo saya fotoin hahaha. H-1 sebelum ketemuan juga bikin heboh di kantor masing-masing. Ternyata kata Iena, hubungan percintaan nya Ibnu ini jadi problem satu kantor. Pas tau kalo weekend nya mau ketemuan sama Perempuan, hebohlah kantor dia. Sampe disuruh pulang cepet sama Managernya buat beli oleh-oleh, sampe Ibu di pantry ngasih "semoga sukses buat besok", macem acara lamaran kata Ibnu. Di kantor saya pun hebohnya kalo saya mau Taaruf. Saya cerita ke kang Yana kalo besok mau ketemu Ibnu, ternyata pas meeting terdengarlah kata-kata Szasa ketemuan sama Laki-laki, dan Bapak-bapak di ruangan memutuskan kalo besok Szasa taaruf, meeeeeeen. Dasar single nya kelamaan ya gini (High five dong Nyu!).

Waktu ketemu ternyata se silly itu memang orangnya, bukan jaim-jaim karena baru ketemu tapi kayak temen lama yg akhirnya ketemu lagi. Lancar sekali obrolan kita. Meskipun sempet macet-macetan di Jakarta, tapi those short weekend we had really makes me happy. Dia juga sempet ketemu sama temen-temen geng saya, and he blends really well (meskipun agak lost klo kita mulai ngobrolnya pake bahasa Jawa). Sampe saya tanya satu-satu temen saya malemnya gimana menurut mereka (Suci, Kincu maapkan aku chat tengah malem). I like this guy dan saya berdoa dalem hati semoga Ibnu ngga ilfil sama saya hahaha. Ternyata setelah ketemuan itu, chat kita makin lancaaaaaaaaaar.

Ibnu orangnya inget hal detil, kadang serem sendiri hahaha. Dia tau saya suka nonton Jurassic Park kalo sedih atau sakit dan dia nyimpen filem Jurassic Park di henponnya dong plus screen shot gambar-gambar T-Rex dari film. Katanya buat first aid kit Szasa kalo sedih (cheesy!). Saya cerita ke Dimas tentang ini, he said "What...the..hell. nyimpen Jurassic Park di henpon. That's weird, you're really weird", but i like him weird :) Ibnu inget kalo kita pernah bahas, kalo saya ke Bandung dia bakal ngasih banner di depan pasteur "Welcome to Bandung Ditsza!" (untung ngga dibikinin beneran), tapi jadinya nge print tulisan di kertas. Pas ngasih pake acara disuruh nutup mata dulu, duuhh saya ngekel ketawanya gara-gara ga nyangka he would remember and did that in his own way. Padahal Ibnu ga mau ngaku suka hal-hal cheesy tapi tiba-tiba kirim lagu strawberry shortcake yang Cupycake song, dan lahirnya panggilan My Pumpy Umpy Umpkin, cheesy sekali bukaaaan.

Ibnu suka naik gunung, kayaknya udah ratusan kali saya diajakin naek gunung terus. Ibnu suka manggil saya pake Ditsza Diandra, kalo yg laen manggil Ditsza agak ga suka, tp kalo Ibnu yg panggil suka aja dengernya. Ibnu ga bisa bedain mana makanan enak sama biasa aja, dia bilang semua makanan sama. Ibnu sering chat pake bahasa Jawa meskipun salah maksut (ujane akeh -_-"). Ibnu suka ngajak saya ke tempat-tempat with pretty view. Ibnu suka kesel kalo saya ngga sarapan. Ibnu ngga suka foto selfie, katanya ntar cool nya ilang. Ibnu saya racun Triplet Daehan, Minguk, Manse, trus jadi suka nonton bareng via whatsapp. Ibnu suka tiba-tiba jadi "ngalem" kalo hujan, saya ledekin sih padahal suka liatnya. Ibnu kadang sering ngeselin banget kalo tiba-tiba uda cerita panjang lebar trus sok-sok rahasia ditengah-tengah cerita (bikin penasaran!!). Ibnu bisa jadi super cheesy seharian, bikin sweet gesture yang kadang bikin saya sampe speechless ga nyangka. Ibnu kalo mulai bikin saya pundung selalu pake jurus "Aku lagi sakit jangan dimarain", luntur semua langsung keselnya. Masih banyak lagi tentang Ibnu yang kalau di list will sound corny.

Sekarang masih LDR  (JKT-BDG doang sih) dan punya jadwal siapa samperin siapa seminggu sekali atau dua minggu sekali. Ibnu pernah yg belain 2 minggu berturut-turut ke Jakarta, padahal saya nya yg pengen ke Bandung tapi ga dibolehin gara-gara saya mau ke HK hari Selasa nya. Kita jarang  telpon-telpon an, Ibnu ga kuat telp lama-lama karena henponnya berat dan katanya kupingnya ntar panas. Jadinya whatsapp, Hangout, dan social media ga boleh putus.

Kata orang dengan bertambahnya usia seorang, cara pikirnya jadi berubah jg. Semenjak sama Ibnu saya ngerasa everything seems easy and less drama. Bener deh, saya orangnya gampang stress, jeles, kadang moody cranky ga jelas sama pasangan. Tapi sekarang jadi lebih "oh yaudah gpp", semua ngga diambil stress nya duluan. Kata Suci, "kamu emang butuh orang kayak Ibnu Sza". Mungkin karena saya orangnya terlalu semua mua harus dipikirin dulu, kalo ngga sesuai rencana, saya jadi bete grumpy seharian. Ibnu orangnya lebih santai, dia bener-bener punya sesuatu stress free, ngga kaku, kayak cuma ngeliat dia aja saya udah tenang, everything will be just fine, as long i'm with him.

I know the time he read this post he would say, "Ditszaaaa kamu chweeeesssyyyyy", you know what, i really do not care. I'll be your cheesiest girl in the whole world, like alwaaays. just bear with me okay :)

Ini post panjang sekali special buat kamuuu. Kan katanya kamu pengen femes di blog aku kan?

Rawr,

Yours

June, the 18th was my husband birthday! I know i know i wrote it way too late, almost a month. But please spare this new mom (hihihi). He's 29 years old and another year to the big 3 wohooo. We hope you will get the best in the world and jannah. Thanks for being you this whole time, we are very grateful to have you as my husband and Dzaka's father. Always healthy and happy birthday again Masibnuu!

We weren't celebrate it with surprise or cake because it was in Ramadhan month and it was on weekend. Usually we stay to his parent's house for weekend. But that weekend we decided to stay at home because we had something on that day (omg i forgot what it was hahaha). I had idea to surprise him wth special homemade birthday sahur. I made yellow rice with its complementary. I realized that we didnt have chicken so i changed it with chicken nugget instead. I secretly prepared everything while he's playing with Dzaka. I made an excuse to prepare sahur, but it was special one.


I woke up at half past 2 (usually i woke up at past 3) so i had time to cook everything. It was ready at 3.30 and i had time to add some "banner" that said Happy Birthday. I didnt have time to print it because it would be so obvious to him. I woke him up like usual and told him to go straight to table because i already prepare it there. And then i said surpriseeee!! (Then dzaka woke up because the noise haha), he surprise how could i prepare everything without his knowledge, yeah i'm that good (haha sombong). And that was all, we eat sahur together in his birthday. Not too fancy but it was worth the effort.


Happiest birthday again husband, jangan sirik sirik lagi dzaka mirip ibunya (piss love and gaul)

Love,
Szasa

Hello!

I want to spread a good news, yep i'm officially have bun in the oven, or pregnant you might say. We (me and the baby and the husband not to forget to be included) had survive the first trimester. Which for some people sound scary and horrifying because there will be so many pain (on your tits, tummy and all over your body), nonstop nausea and vomiting, change hormonal issue, or gain weight (i gain 2 kg after 2 months married on my 4 weeks pregnancy zzz) and there's more if you want a big list.

Thankfully i experienced few of those pregnancy symptoms. Which are :

- I gained weight (duh!), not too surprise about this things because i usually so easy to gain weight.

- I easily exhausted. From walking too far and too long or taking stairs on my office. Man, it was like i need to slow down my pace. No more jumping to one tile to another while walking.

- I sleep a lot, i mean A LOT! Before knowing that i'm pregnant, my husband felt weird of me because suddenly after 8 PM i said good night to him. And then after that i feel sleepy every time anywhere. I sleep during office hour on my chair which i rarely to do.

- I start eat healthy. This one thanks to dear husband who always remind me to NOT USING ANY MICIN IN EVERY MEAL I TAKE. I dont know, i dont really mind at all if there's just a lil bit vetsin on my meals hahaha. But yes, i care about my baby so i start eat more green and healthy food. But after two months my appetite decreasing, i dont know if i dont want it i just cant eat it.

- I rarely feel nauseous and never vomiting at first. I felt a lil bit sick whenever i eat too many so my tummy feels too full. But it was one or two nauseous and then it's gone. Thankfully the most scary story about pregnancy is during their nausea and vomiting problems. I have friend who also pregnant, she could come to office because the vomiting was too harsh on her. Alhamdulilah Mance (we called the baby Mance) knows that the mother need to stay fit.

- I do experience "ngidam" or too craving on something, and mostly meal from my hometown Surabaya. But i never wanted something in the middle of the night which will make me and my husband crazy haha. I think Mance knows that the father cant always be around so the baby wont ask anything silly or crazy. Just something I could get by my self. 

- I feel like a urinal machine and the bathroom is my bestfriend.

- My husband become more protective of my self and the baby. He wouldnt let me bring or lift anything. He would give me killer look whenever i tried to bring my own bag or tried to lift something he thought it was heavy. He would reminded me to walk slower or take the stairs more careful. He would ask me "are you okay?" thousands time hahaha. He always drag me to nearest chair just make sure i have proper "break time" during our grocery shopping with family. Sure he will become the best papah in the whole world. We love you paaaaaah!

- My bestfriend is pregnant too!!!

- I had bad flu and cough during pregnancy. Sooooo stressful.

They said the second trimester is the best time to travel. Because the less body ache, the baby is already strong enough, the mama also already accustomed with the pregnancy. I wonder if my husband will read this and remember what he said during our waaaaay past conversation if it in the second trimester that we will go somewhere.

Please wish us a healthy and fun pregnancy!

Love,

Szasa

As you read above, yes I'm officially engaged with this guy. The "Lamaran" held last Saturday in my aunt's place. Because my big family mostly in Jakarta so it was good idea, that's why i have so many people give hands to help (thank youuuu). My best friends came too and even Dimas become the Photographer hahaha, but really, thanks guys it really meant a lot.

To you Fiance (cheesy, boooo) thanks for coming and bring your big family, though it was unbelievably so fast, but my family were very grateful for that day. We definitely will make our family bigger in the future haha.

I made the decoration from scratch, so much drama included also. But in the end, it was worth it! Thanks Pinterest, Bloggers, and Instagram, i can not mention one by one.

I know that the real homework is waiting. But you know, this lady need her time off from glue gun, paper and tape. Most importantly, i need to clean my room.

Dear Masibnu,

Happy birthdaaaaaaaay! Seriously, 27 looks very good on you. May you always have a good life, health and prosperity year ahead! You know i'll always pray the best for you ✌

Usually i'll write down about the person who has their birthday. But you know, if  i start write down what i think about you, you'll start mocking me with "Ditszaaaaaaaaa chweeeeesssssyyyyy", but today i'll try not to sound too cheesy (hopefully). Ok, let's start!

You're the funniest guy i know, please dont say that i'm wrong, but it is! And not just for me, for people around you. You have this 'happiness and positive magnet' all over your body. You always alwaaaays knew how to find goodness in something, never talk bad about people. And that's how i keep adore you more and more. Please dont change :).

You're heavy sleeper and i get annoyed with that sometimes. How could a person get sleepy after wake up?! Hahaha. You start learn DIY thingy just because you said to me 'so there's someone made you DIY", that's the sweetest things to say. Dont stop me for making surprise(s) for you, cause that's my favorite things to do.

I'm sorry i make you heavier week by week, you're fun to be a meal partner. Still try to bear this long distance thingy. For some people JKT-BDG is not that far, but not seeing you in two or three weeks isn't my favorite thing to do. The see you soon waving and "tiati ya" always got me. Well, hopefully on your next year birthday, there's no more midnite call to say happy birthday. But i'll say that in front you.

I'll see you in two days! Selamat Puasaaaaaa hari pertama.

Quarter age, scare or what? I had this pre drama on my almost quarter age lately. I'm scared being 25, mostly because in my mind i thought that people will have weapon to attack me with 'what will you do in your future' thingy. 25 is the age, the golden age if i could say. Everyone would think you're an adult. Not an adult 20 something who still search or build a career, but a real one. Well, hopefully this year wont too scary.

I always love the idea of birthday, but this year is kinda different. I specifically told Ibnu 'dont make any surprise(s)' just keep it low(mostly because i'm scared). So he did hahaha, he gave me these tools i want, this flower paper bouq (DIY rule!), and this cheesy note (nope i wont say what's inside it).

So many warm messages through socmed and whattsapp or line or call. My family who still on their holiday sent me this video which really made me happy but teary at the same time. My friends send many warm wishes too.